1. Spend at least ten minutes every day thinking about what’s great about you.  Look into the mirror and compliment yourself!
  2. Stand up tall with your feet about 18 inches apart, pull your shoulders back and down and make circular movements with your hips. Lick round the edges of your lips as you think of a sexy moment in your life.  Doing sexy body language consciously is a way of beginning to develop it as a natural way of being.
  3. Start smiling at people you don’t normally interact with and notice the effect.
  4. Pay attention to how other people speak and move.  Notice how they speak at different rates and volumes and move with different energy levels.   This is the first step in being able to develop an energetic rapport with others that will make interaction much smoother and more successful.
  5. At the beginning of each day ask yourself what great opportunities to connect with people are going to present themselves.  You’ll be surprised how changing your focus allows you to detect things that may have previously gone unnoticed
  6. If you go to a social event, don’t have a seek and hunt attitude to finding a partner.  See it simply as an opportunity to meet new people and expand your social network.  Most people meet their partners via people they know and when they least expect it!

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4 Responses to “Six Flirting Tips to Get Yourself Started”

  • find a date says:

    Smiling is the most effective way to me as means of flirting because it sends off a message that you like the person and that you are approachable.

  • Navid Avar says:

    thank`s

  • Akoledowo Michael says:

    Thanks for your lifestyle coaching piece. It is really interesting and encouraging. Within a month i have really feel the impart of your motivational coaching. thanks and more grease to your elbow.

  • Liz says:

    In the last few days I started to smile at strangers I cross in the street, or during train journeys… amazed by the results… people are first shocked, then they look around to check if I am smiling at them and then… when they understand that I am smiling at them…they reply so happy and flirting (and I feel great as a return) :)

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