Attract Your Perfect Relationship

You can be as wealthy as Bill Gates but without love life has no meaning.   For ten years I’d been successfully helping people to attract intimate relationships.  I was a four times published author with a thriving business and a hunky man on my arm.   In 2003 I sent out a press release saying ‘Be Blissfully Single This Valentines’

You can imagine my surprise when two months later, after twenty years in relationship, I found myself suddenly single!  At the age of 52, the Flirt Coach lost her man.

I knew if I was to maintain my credibility I’d have to walk my talk. I’d seen clients dive into affairs and relationships to ease the pain of being alone and I knew my path lay elsewhere. It was time for the teacher to go back to school.  One of the courses I found myself signing up for was Perfect Customer Incs’ Strategic Attraction Coaching program.

I lovingly composed  an attraction plan for my perfect man. It was long.  As I read through and revised the plan over and over, there was never a moment when I doubted he was there. I joined four internet dating sites and revised my profile ongoingly to affirm my desire. ‘I know my soulmate is out there and is looking for me as I look for him’.    Many men contacted me and I rejected them all because this time I was holding out for what I deserved - the perfect soulmate for me.

And one day I read a one line posting on an internet list whose mails I normally deleted.   The posting said ‘check out this website’.    I followed my nose and through a series of  ‘accidental’  synchronicities he turned up in my inbox.  Whilst I was dreaming of a man I could love and work with, so was he, five thousand miles across the ocean.   He is everything I put on my attraction plan and more.  And now we are about to turn our lives upside down to be together, because at the end of the day, love is the foundation of everything.

What I learned is that whilst it’s important to put yourself out there, it’s even more important to keep your focus on the grand dream and to let go of how or when it will happen.     I held the space for 3 years. It was worth it.  Do your plan, trust in the process and, it can happen to you too.

May your journey be as rewarding as mine still is.

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