Attract Your Perfect Relationship

Peta Heskell – The Original Flirt Coach

Showing you doors to more of who you are…

Peta Heskell is an international workshop leader and coach and well known to the media as the first ever Flirt Coach. She has a background is in relationship development with  specialist expertise in body language, dating, relationship, flirting, semantics, linguistics, communication, law of attraction and social psychology. specifically the study of people patterns and how they interact with others and use language both verbal and non verbal.
 Peta is a licensed NLP Trainer and Strategic Attraction Coach. A social ontologist [study of how people are in social settings]

Flirt Coach's Secrets of Attraction - book

Since 2001, Peta has had four books published by Harper Collins including ‘Flirt Coach’

, The Flirt Coach’s Secrets of Attraction and ‘The Flirt Coach’s Guide to Finding the Love you Want’

She runs Attract Your Perfect Relationship Teleseminars on a regular basis and does private relationship coaching by phone.

In 1999 she quit her corporate training work and her contract as a Microsoft Video Presenter to set up the Attraction Academy and develop the UK’s first ever Flirting Weekend.

Peta has run this course in the UK, the USA and Europe. She invented the concept of Flirt Coaching to help people to become more confident, enjoy life more, be more playful & sexier, connect more easily and communicate meaningfully and with purpose.

Peta used the law of attraction and the Attraction Template to attract her own special soulmate into her life and they now live together on the edge of a forest working together to help people live more empowered and loving lives.

Specialist areas

• Human Interaction – What makes people tick.  How people use language.   Body Language Leaks – what people give away.
• Dating - Attracting your Perfect Relationship-tm How to attract a partner in love or business who is absolutely a match and perfect fit for you
• Dating – How to communicate to gather information, what to reveal and how to read signals and give out clear signals yourself.
• The art of flirtatious persuasion – how to charm your way to getting what you want and making other people feel good about it afterwards
• Confidence building for individuals and teams – how to be at your best at all times even with the grumpiest of people and in the most challenging of situations
• Relationship attraction and development
• Generating positive potential – focusing on what works and building from there
• Exquisite Communication skills - as exhibited in master communicators, negotiators and persuaders.

Background

Peta is a Licensed and Certified NLP trainer,Licensed Strategic Attraction Coach-tm and a Licensed and Certified MythoSelf ® facilitator and Associate Trainer and a member of the International Coaching Federation.

Media Experience

Press Coverage of Peta
She has been the subject of hundreds of articles in every UK national newspaper from the Times to the Sun [excluding the Sport!] and over 40 magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Red, Men’s Health and Style and You magazine, USA Today, Cosmo and more.

TV Expertise
Peta has been a regular guest on TV shows since 1997.  She is a seasoned TV expert guest and is always motivational and informational, sometimes controversial and very entertaining.  Peta says ‘I give great TV’ and it’s said with a wicked wink followed by a giggly smile!

She has been the featured expert in 3 TV documentaries and also appears regularly as a social psychology expert on programmes such as C4’s 100 worst Britons, Celebrities Uncovered, and Frank Bruno - the man.

She was also selected as the body language commentator for NBC’s nationally featured ‘Today’ show that went out on the date of Charles and Camilla’s wedding.

Down the Line Radio Interviews

Peta is a powerful and entertaining broadcaster.  A presenter on GLR [now BBC Radio London] commented that she managed to get more mentions for her product in 3 minutes than anyone he’d ever interviewed.
Examples: In a promotion for the DVD release of Mel Gibson’s What Women Want, she participated in a debate on radio with Peter Stringfellow on what men and women want.  Peta has done as many as 20 radio interviews in one session.   
Nicky Campbell invited her onto his show for a short interview and asked her to stay for the entire show.  His comments ‘Peta is a great broadcaster’

Product Promotion & PR

Peta specialises in public relations for PR companies whose clients want to associate a product with sexiness, flirtation, lust, body language, attractiveness, singles, communication, self-improvement, feelgood factor, lust, love, dating and romance.

Previous PR Clients

Godiva Chocolates, Floodlight, Pink Lady Apples, Video - What Men Want, Options Chocolate drinks, Flirtboat, Lever Faberge, Gumtree.com, Tesco Stores, Starbucks, Tate & Lyle, Ipso Facto Films, Scream Films, Momentum Films, Match.com, Chemistry dating events, Single Solutions, KLM airlines, Virgin Mobile, Calmer Karma, Activity Superstore, Buddy Network, Barefoot Training, Virgin Trains

How Peta can help publicise your product:

Peta is a highly skilled copywriter, magazine columnist and author of four self help books.  She can produce a tailored booklet based on flirting tips, attraction secrets, dating tips, communication tips or any topic related to sex, flirtation, lust,dating, attractiveness, body language being single and general self help.

Her forte is incorporating the product into the copy and relating it to the subject matter.    She can be as amusing, rude or serious as you want - although as a fun-loving person, she’s not too keen on the serious bit!

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Examples: Peta wrote a flirting tips booklet for Pink Lady Apples.  One of the tips she gave was to carry two  Pink Lady Apple with you and offer one to someone you like. In her booklet for Options, she likened the different flavours of chocolate drinks to the fact that people have different tastes and we’re all unique. She also wrote A Fresh look at Flirting for Clear Focus - freshlook contact lenses.

Peta has developed in-depth personality questionnaires for Buddy Network and has created several quizzes for  Cosmopolitan [USA edition].

Interactive Talks and quizzes

Peta can do short interactive talks on topics such as flirting, dating tips, attraction, communication and doing the work you love.
Examples: She recently did a talk for Godiva Chocolates where the group were invited to experience the sensation of eating chocolate slowly guided by Peta to focus on the multi-sensory experience, as an example of how to become more sensitive to your own signals.  A yummy time was had by all.  
Peta also ran two workshops for Freud Communications, to promote an internet flirting game ‘Flirtboat’.  The first was for the press and the second for the general public. The promotion got huge coverage in the Daily Express. KLM invited Peta to fly to Amsterdam and run a flirting workshop for journalists. Zoe Williams did a very positive 1/3 page piece in the London Evening Standard about the event.

Talks

Peta is a sought-after, entertaining and, pull-no-punches, motivational public speaker.  Her talks are all designed to entertain, educate, facilitate and motivate. She provides talks on a range of subjects including:

Problems? What problems? - A radically different approach to life. This highly upbeat and motivational talk is aimed at everyone and ideal for giving people a positive focus and sense of possibility . Most of us are taught to see life through a filter of problems and solutions. When stuff happens that wasn’t planned for it’s categorised as a ‘problem’.  We think of certain colleagues, bosses and customers as ‘problem people’.  We see our partners as causing us ‘problems’  And that’s complete b-s.    We make up our own interpretation of life as it happens. And we can choose to make up something that works for us. By learning to develop an attitude of starting with what works well in people and situations we can trigger the creative part of our brain and begin to notice FOR possibility. This talk sometimes uses material taken from the Satisfaction Cycle-tm and Exquisite Performance Coaching-tm models of Peta’s mentor - International trainer, philosopher and social ontologist - Dr Joseph Riggio.

Pulling Power - The Secrets of Attraction How to get what you want and develop immense pulling power in all areas of your life. Designed for individuals who want to be more attractive generally; find the career that’s right for them, attract well-matched relationships and improve social success  - Based on her book ‘Flirt Coach’s Secrets of Attraction’ Peta will give your group a taster of the six steps to boosting their attraction quotient.

Follow Your Purpose Star [life choices] - Based on Joseph Campbell’s Hero’s Journey, Peta takes the audience through the steps of what it takes to uncover your purpose star, make the big leap, follow your dreams and attract all the help you need.   Learn how to use your ‘purpose star’ as a guide for all crucial decision making.

Talk your way to Success [NLP communication tips] - Analysis of what makes a powerful communicator; tips on how to use the linguistic technology of NLP to communicate effectively and influentially to get great results.

Body Talk – Use your own body talk  to send the right message and become an expert reader of others.  Your body speaks your mind – Your body speaks your mind and when you become an expert in reading the ‘bodytalk’ of others you will be amazed at how it will help you get them onside because they feel so ‘at home’ with you.
Learn how to ‘read’ and  ’talk’ the body language of successful attractive people. Discover what kind of signals your body is giving out and how can you change your body language to make yourself more appealing and confident.   Small groups  half day/two hour work-shops. Numbers limited to 15 to allow personal feedback on body language. .

Courses for would be Lovers and Soulmates

Pulling Power –How to become a people magnet by being yourself! – discover the 
Peta will launch you on a treasure trail journey to the centre of yourself to look for and uncover what works, to become more aware of what’s amazing about you to discover your own unique perfection.. like a divinely flawed diamond.    Peta shows you how to love yourself again, be comfortable in your own skin, and move freely and naturally. She will help you to become more flexible and show you how to shift up a gear, speed up and put your foot down.. when necessary and how to slow down at just the right moment.  After a weekend with Peta you will feel much more confident, become more playful and proactive and how to connect easily and communicate exquisitely.   AND you will know how to reactivate this in yourself… you are in the driving seat now.. it’s up to you..

Attract your Perfect Match - Wishes come true in the strangest of ways unless you’re in the driving seat   What are you wishing for right now?  Hot sex? A new man, a soulmate, a relationship, someone to share things with?   Most of us spend time wishing realising what exactly we’re wishing for.   The King Midas story is the perfect metaphor for how life works.   Midas wished that everything he touched would turn to gold and because he wasn’t more specific he got exactly what he wished for.  Everything he touched did turn to gold including his food, family, animals, trees the ground and water. I’m going to introduce you to two methods to discover what you want and how to ask for specifically what is perfect for you.

It’s not enough to write out a list of all the qualities you want in your perfect mate.  You have to test run it over and over constantly refining it.   For example, if you want someone who is faithful, you have to have a complete sense of what that means to you.   Peta will also reveal to you the three crucial factors that are essential to making this plan work.

At the Vitality Show last year Peta will took people through first stage of attracting your perfect mate.  Knowing what you want and beginning the template for your perfect mate in such a way that it really reflects who you are and your true desires.   They also began to learn how to recognise signs that they are on track and how to turn ‘disaster’ dates into a magic formula that makes sure they get a man who is a perfect match and fit for them.

Peta is a MythoSelf ® Licensed and Certified Facilitator and studied for 8 years with the architect and designer of this process, Joseph Riggio. She is a licensed Trainer of NLP having studied under the founder Richard Bandler and is currently the only licensed Strategic Attraction Coach in the UK.  She is licensed by Perfect Customers Inc.

She also has a PhD.  Peta Has Done It.    She’s been a rock chick, lived a wild life and been on the edge enough times to have turned the experience and her learning into a manifesto for how to do life in a way that’s uniquely perfectly right for YOU and only YOU.